I’ve been taking care of my mother on my own for about 6 mos now (27f) and being that it is my day to day life I’m so tired and really don’t have anything to talk about when I do try and go out and socialize. I don’t want to bring up my situation because that’s what a therapist is for and not my friends, but at the same time it’s the only thing going on in my life and I don’t have anything else to talk about. I’m so lonely but also so exhausted that I don’t know if I have it in me to make friends right now.
If I do go out I’m catching myself taking care of my friends like I would my mom because it’s habitual now.
Will moving out and away from this situation make it better?
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seems like she’s holding u down. leave and spread your wings
You could always communicate with other caregivers…
I know it can be very draining and intense, caring for someone day after day, without a break. I hope you find others who are understanding and supportive. All the best to you both!