It’s 3:30 am and I’m still thinking about this shit. I’ve been taking self improvement seriously for the past month or so and one of the things I’ve tried hard on, on top of bulking/working out/looksmaxxing, is socials skills, mainly towards girls so I can sleep with someone that i hold in high standard (feels pretty corny and lame saying this on a sub but hey that’s how every other male my age thinks). So in the midst of my social skill progression I had the perfect moment to ask for this cute girls Snapchat today, whom I met at work after I took her order and she started a conversation with me (even told me where she worked which was nearby but ofc my retarded ass didn’t remember the places name). I started overthinking it since she was there with another girl and a dude and I wasn’t sure if the dude was her man (doesn’t matter in retrospect I should have just asked) in the end after she was done eating she walked by the front desk where I was held eye contact as she said bye and left with her friends in a hurried manner which added to me just giving up since I didn’t want to say “wait up!” Just to get the whole groups attention again. To make matters worse she was my type to an above average extent which makes this mistake eat me up even more. Please tell me any thing I could change in the future.
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Next time, don’t hesitate. Don’t wait for the perfect moment. Do it now! You’ll make mistakes sometimes. You’ll get rejected sometimes. You’ll get the girl sometimes. But when you do nothing, you’ll always get nothing.
Most of the times it feels good that i have tried, regardless the outcome. If you approach with the intention of asking her for her snap her reaction doesnt matter, you did what you wanted to do either way. maybe try that(?) let it be your goal to ask someone out, not to get them to sleep with you. boom, you literally can’t loose because asking someone out will be your goal and thats pretty easy to achieve 🙂
Sometimes you gatta get out of your head and make the magic happen