Began talking to a dating a woman I met on one of the apps a month ago. We have been on 4 dates, one each weekend, and in my opinion each went well except the last one towards the end of the date. The last date we were sitting together talking and my political views were Brought up. I consider myself not a political person and she is very progressive with her political views. I believe this caused some problems because later on she mentioned several times she was shocked I am not a very political person. I noticed after this she began to pull back for several days where conversation fell off quite a bit to where we were only sending a handful of messages back and forth each day. Ultimately I asked her if she was still interested and she said she was less interested than before but that she was not uninterested and that she still feels like she does not know me very well. I asked her to elaborate a bit and she said she was also conflicted because a few things in my dating profile were inaccurate such as my religious and political views. I was under the assumption both religion and political beliefs were not on my profile because I prefer to keep those things out of the conversation when meeting new people. But once she pointed those things out on my profile I went and changed them to be accurate. She also explained she felt like she does a lot of the talking, and that I haven’t relaxed or opened up to her. I do not necessarily agree with her when she says I have not opened up to her. I ultimately told her for now I think I would like to stop talking and ended on good terms so no bridges were burned and she wished me the best too.

I am just wondering peoples’ opinions on the situation and what can be learned from it, as I did like her a lot and was a little blind-sided and bummed out when she said she had lost interest as things seemed to be going really well and headed in a direction we both wanted.

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