26F. I feel like I’m having a hard time going on first dates because I’m too hyper and straightforward, which can be a bit overwhelming for some people. I have ADHD (on medication) and was raised in a loud and blunt household, so it’s hard for me to control these things when they’re hardwired into my system. Part of me wants to be unapologetically me, but another part wonders if I’m just scaring people off. I’m even considering bringing it up with my therapist, but honestly, I’m torn.
Anyone else out there struggle with this? How do you manage your energy/communication style on dates? Advice would be greatly appreciated!