It’s been over 8 years since I’ve had PIV sex and my boyfriend and I were excited for our first time this weekend, but we’ve run into a snag. Every time he tries to enter me, he can’t get inside. He said it feels like I’m pushing him out, but I think I’m relaxed.
A few details:
1. We are both super aroused and lubrication is not the issue.
2. We’ve tried missionary, cowgirl, doggy, and spooning.
3. We’ve had momentary success in doggy and with me bent across the back of the couch.
4. I am not in pain when he’s inside, although when fingering me, he can only get two fingers in and he says it’s tight.
5. He is above average in length, I don’t think that’s the issue.
6. My hips also seem to be really tight.
Has anyone had this issue? Any suggestions – positions, exercises? My quick Google search makes me think my pelvic floor is overactive. Thanks for your suggestions!
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