What’s it like for your spouse to pay attention to you? 34m husband, 32f stay at home mom. I work 50+ hours a week, help out from the second I get home to the second we go to bed, bathe the girls (2 of them), and there’s never anything left for me. . She has all the attention for her phone, her plants, her terrible friends, but never me. .
What it like to have someone listen to everything you have to say? That would be nice. .
Edit to add: I do all the things also. I listen to her after my long days of work. I bring home all the gifts and snacks and household gadgets and plants. I do my best to be the best for my best, and get left with nothing at the end of every day. .