I’ve been dating with this woman for just over a month and since last week we started having sex. The first time was basically me giving her oral sex for about 30 minutes and making her cum twice. She did 2 minutes of sucking my dick but she mentioned it was really big and she ‘didn’t know what to do with it’ jokingly. I didn’t push for PIV because she was quite tired at the end.
Fast forward to last night, we had sex again as I gave her an orgasm, then we fucked for maybe 5 minutes but I really had to slow down at some stages to not hurt her (I’m 64 condom size not sure if that says something). Anyway, after that I licked her again and gave her another orgasm. That was it, she didn’t touch my dick once. Then this morning I woke her up and again gave her oral for 30 minutes and made her cum twice. Again she didn’t make any effort into touching my dick.
What should I do in this situation and what do you think it’s causing it? She’s not inexperienced although she mentioned no guy ever made her cum through oral and they usually just start fucking her without foreplay. We really have a connection I feel like and she’s great outside of the bedroom. I just don’t understand how you can be so selfish and not even try to give me pleasure when you clearly seem to like me?
If it continues I will talk to her about this but just wanted to hear your thoughts about why this may be the case first so I can maybe understand it better.