So I’m f(40) I recently met guy m(36) from a dating app, we went on a date and ended up having sex which got me so wet.. he went hard on me and did oral on me.. but when it was happening my thought was does he know what he was doing.. in the morning after, I was like I didnt enjoy that much.. then I went on a 2nd date and ended up the same cause I thought maybe 1st I was drunk so I didnt enjoy it that much.. but it left me with the same feeling.. and now when we talk I feel like he just keeps asking for validation about the sex.. I dont know how to tell him I dont want to see him again.. please help me on this reddit people.