Hi all,
I am a 30-year-old male, living in the US in a very conservative religious state. I am originally from India but have been in the US since 2015. I am having zero luck dating. Here is my profile:
[https://imgur.com/a/X8V0mTZ](https://imgur.com/a/X8V0mTZ)
For some perspective, here is my relationship background.
I am a virgin, as with the majority of men from India my only and only goal was to study and be financially successful. I have never even held hands with a girl. My friends, colleagues, and family tell me I am emotionally mature but do not have the flirting/expressing interest game. I am very calm to the point that some will find me very boring, I am judgmental about casual sex and only interested in long-term relationships with the intention of marriage & family.
I am financially very secure, have both outdoor & indoor hobbies, and can hold a conversation very well.
My white friends here have sincerely told me that my attitude and my values are a complete mismatch with people here. I also do not fit the typical Western male physical characteristics.
I am not trying to be crass here but I want the honest truth, I would really appreciate it if you could keep the American niceties out. Thank you.
EDIT: Thank you so much for the feedback, I am really sorry for not interacting. Busy mid-term week for me.
I have upvoted everyone’s comment. This post has been humbling and uplifting at the same time. Some major points I want to address:
I am in no way looking for a tradwife by any means, it is infantilizing women and frankly I value ambition very highly. I am sorry my wording gave off that vibe.
I am a very polite person, very particular on manners and respecting others and wanted someone close to my values.
A lot of you suggested arranged marriage, I understand and get your point but throughout my life I did what I was supposed to do, what I should do but in this I want to find my own way, have an organic connection. So, I will rather die than go that route.
I do not have a preference for religion but I love extended family and want to assimilate so somebody from the US is preferable. I am attracted to curvy blue-eyed blonde women the most.
I am trying to reply to the majority of the comments in a short while.
It seems I have an impossible journey, as someone said I do not know how to overcome the Indianness is me or across the profile.