After College My best friend isolated himself completely and behaving rudely with whoever contacting him.
One of my best friend isolated himself and not communicating with any friends over call. Plz help
So my male classmate since 5 years graduated few years back aged 26.
His name is Veerya. He used to be very energetic, outgoing, bold, everybody used to like him because of his vibe. Some girls also had crush on him due to his social behaviour.
(Recently i came to know about his personal life problem that his father used to be abusive since childhood and drunker, fiend. and he went to classmates house and complained about Veerya. His father said he is mentally ill boy and thrown him out of his own house ) so his father clearly wanted to damege his image because of the fight. Veerya seperated his father to protect his mother. And his father went totally nuts with destroying his image. His father is so weild and bad person.
While in college My friend never mentioned about his personal life problems. He came to know about his father’s doing these things behind his back.
After completing of college life he completely distanced himself from all the friends , including female friends. Also left Whatsapp group, all social media accounts. Etc.
He didn’t pick anyone’s call. And completely ignored. I think he felt so embarrassed because of his Father’s behaviour. And isolated from outside social Circle.
So in our all the old friends meetup, hangout trips. He is the only guy ubsent. I can’t even go to visit his home personally. Because I knew he will not like it.
It’s been 7 years. No contact. I still miss him and cherish those old memories in which he made me feel so special. And happy.
So yesterday our mutual female friend contacted him in messaging, he was rude to her(but he used to be very nice and decent boy) he sent her vulgur memes, extreme sexual content. Which led her to block him.
Plz help me what should I do as a friend?
Why such nice person behaving like this. I am really concerned about him.
Is these anything wrong with him as his father mentioned?
Why he sent her such content?
Short: friend cut off all friends due his to personal issues, and acting vulgur all of a sudden.