Hi, I am in relationship with a guy already for 5 month. I have developed strong feelings for him and I care about him. Currently he is looking for new job. Having job interviews time to time. He is ambitious and wants to get the best offer.
It’s been 3 months since he started focusing on new job. He has loan as well and for him financial security is important. I understand, but during this period he is not motivated to go out on proper dates. We leave far apart and sees me when he has some business near my area. He texts me everyday but he is not emotionally invested in our relationship as before. I just lack the connection we had.
Is there anything i can do as a gf? Should i support him? How should i support him? Should i initiate more? Remind him i love him etc? Can you give some advice how would a good gf would act in this situation ? Am i selfish for focusing on what i lack and feel resentful sometimes?