I 28M haven’t been on a date since February and that was to a woman who I wasn’t very into so there was no second date. I have been on dating apps and have paid probably well over $200 the last two months alone on Hinge boosts. While I sometimes get decent matches, most don’t respond. One time they did and I managed to get their number and set up a brunch date with them. But since I liked some of their pics on instagram, they cancelled on me. I had another match today stop talking to me out of nowhere too.
Before you tell me to “try talking to women in real life,” I have. Recently at my company party I spent the majority of my time talking to women. Even met a few new ones, one that was actually flirting with me. However, this woman 39F has since disregarded me and obviously was just playing me. I walked by her yesterday and looked at her and she quickly looked away… Maybe she was turned off by the age difference. I do not really care.
Truth is that I don’t know if I am really ready for the Summer. I’ll be honest. I want a girlfriend. I would love to meet someone. But between the rejection and other personal issues I’m in therapy for, I honestly don’t know if it’s worth it. I also don’t think I’m very attractive. I’m like a 6.5 at best with my strength being that I am 6’2” but the height doesn’t really help me as much as I’d like it too. I am also not super fit (not fat) but just don’t have abs or anything and can’t really run anymore because of knee troubles which I am in physical therapy for.
Any advice?