I (22m) would like to point out that no I don’t think I’m attractive, only because I lack attention from the opposite sex, but alot of attention from the same sex.
I get lot of dudes sliding in my dms who I know are gay, and though some might think I might be delulu by thinking they are hitting on me, IT IS JUST GAY MEN responding, liking, and sending me a mssg everytime it’s a pic of me trying look “handsome” “sexy” or “attractive” on social media. All the other post they don’t. Even when they know I’m straight too.
Do I dress not “straight enough”? Do I not express myself in a manner that would make one think “oh he’s definitely a cis male”
Meanwhile, sure I might catch a girl glancing for a bit but that means nothing. Even then I feel like I get passed off by girls and ignored. Even though everything that I do to physically look good is to at least get some female attention at first, even if my personality is shit. But i barely even get the time of day from girls wanting to keep talking to me.
Even on tiktok where I just post pics or videos of myself, all my followers, likes, and views, come from men whom inspecting their profile, all give alphabet gang vibes.
Do i give too much gay guy Vibes that isn’t traditionally masculine and simplistic for girls to like enough? What is it?!?