Just a little background: I’m a 23-year-old male in a friends-with-benefits relationship with an older woman who is 53 years old. The sex is amazing, and we share some similar hobbies, which makes things fun outside of the bedroom as well.
Recently, while we were engaging in foreplay and then sex, she said things like “give it to me” and “take it” on separate occasions. She also mentioned the next day that she was a little sore from the previous night.
These comments got me thinking, and I have some questions that might help me gain a better perspective. Is she saying these things because she likes them and is completely in the moment, or is it a trick to make me go harder and ejaculate sooner?
Obviously I am not comfortable asking her these questions.
I’m not as experienced as she is, so any feedback, advice, or suggestions are welcome.
Thank you.