I’ve came to a conclusion that I (25M) need to start being social and spending some time with other people, otherwise I’ll be misarable and alone the rest of my life.
Sounds like a valid point, but after I think about how should I approach people I don’t feel like doing it anymore. The reason might be that I base these thoughts on my need for socializing rather my interest in people I can socialize with. Not that I’m arrogant, it’s just I became to comfortable in my solitude that I think I don’t need to get out of it unless there is a reason strong enough based on which I’ll put an effort to get out.
For example, I can write in an office group chat “who wants to have a lunch”, but I don’t, because that would mean that I have to sacrifice my peace time, which I don’t really want to do.
Very confusing situation and I don’t know how to proceed forward.