So I’m not trying to ask if this was assault, I know it wasn’t and I don’t think it was at all. I’m just new to sexual stuff and I’m not sure how to feel about it and would love to hear people’s thoughts and opinions. So I’ve only ever had sex twice and only with a woman (I’m a 24 year old bi woman). And it’s only been recent, sex has always been anxiety inducing for me so I’m learning to be comfortable with it. Anyway, I’ve been texting this guy for a few weeks and yesterday we met for the third time. We hadn’t discussed anything sexual before, only kisses once, and I’ve been unsure about whether I want to continue seeing him. We hung out for two hours yesterday and 15 minutes before I need to leave he started really enthusiastically making out with me (felt passionate and a pretty intense, he put force into it). Then he asked if I wanted to go to his bed and I said yes. Then we made out and he kissed me all over and enthusiastically touched my boobs and vagina over my clothes. He doesn’t know I’m inexperienced, he did ask me 2-3 if this was ok and I said yes each time even though I didn’t like it. He didn’t ask me before touching me more intimately, he just started touching me where he wanted to and then asked me if it’s ok. So I’m learning my difficulty saying no extends to sexual stuff as well. And I went along with it because I didn’t want to upset him, but in my mind I was just thinking how long I need to do this until I can leave and that I was hoping he won’t touch my vagina (which he did, but only over the clothes). So today I’m just processing my experience and I just felt it would be helpful to have people to talk to about it. I worry that I would have let him go even further if there would have been time for that to happen. Thanks for listening 🙂