Male 32. Have 2 bestfriends since highschool and college 2010 – until now (we are group of 3, and we are all married now)
We supported each other and been there in almost in everystep of our life. When we were broke we try to takecare of each other, even when one of us was sick we take them to the hospital at 1am in the morning… Sharing vurnerable moments, etc2
I’m both of their bestman during their wedding. I’ve always consider them my 2 bestfriend in the world.
But recently I feel leftout. 1 of them become very successful and busy, 1 is starting his own business. They sometimes met in an event without me. When the successful one is opening up new business, he only gave e-invitation to the other friend, not to me (I feel like i need to reach certain level of success / recognition to connect again with them)
Even after that my colleague ask the successful one if he knows me, and he replied he don’t (even after the colleague gave details about me)
Or maybe I did something that hurt their feeling without me knowing it idk..
All I want is just be friend like old times. Talking about everything without any barrier or any insecurities.
Am I overthinking this? Or this is just what happen in life – we grow apart? Feels kinda sucks
PS : Sorry about the rambling, don’t know where else to share this