Clarification: they didn’t meet your standards before but maybe you reconsidered them when you turned 30.
Example: she already had a kid (or more) and you weren’t very open to being with her until you turned 30.
Put in the comments if you did have this kind of reconsideration but at a different age.
I’m honestly just curious to see if yall get lonely like the stereotypical midlife crisis for women when they turn 30.
*I would still like to hear from other genders just out of curiosity – so if you’re reading this feel free to engage whether you are a man or not*