During stressful times, being a mom and full time employee she gets stressed and I get that, but in the heat of the moment she goes off the rails 2-4x a month. “I hate this job I hate my life, if you just made more I wouldn’t have this stress” constantly. If she breaks a glass all hell breaks loose, she’s out for blood. I make $160-180k and pay bills, school etc as much as possible, do chores, watch kids barely have hobbies, always home and helpful. I am at my breaking point, I defend myself and want to just run away bc it is constant.
I don’t have outbursts, considered a good guy and do anything to avoid the outburst and blame. Somehow I get sucked into the vortex and it makes me resentful.
I’m leaving out so much context and I apologize but this is the root of my issue with her.
How would you deal with this? Her outburst are childish, never apologizes and we carry on once the outburst is over.