I have a crush on this older guy and I’m not sure if he just isn’t interested or if he thinks he has no shot with me. I’m 30F 5’5, 150, with blonde curls and I often get hit on at this bar I go to. The bouncer is like 6’ and a big chubby guy and I think he’s soooo cute but I’ve tried to flirt and ask him to play pool with me sometime and he didn’t say no but he didn’t make plans with me. Is he not interested? I have confirmation he is single lol and he went out of his way to get my number and told me I should join a pool league.