I was in bed with a woman about an hour ago, I’m an amateur and so is she but when she gave a handjob it was super painful but I thought thats just how it is, but since my foreskin has been stuck behind the head of my penis and it’s formed kind of a swollen ring, I searched online and every website said its paraphimosis and I should visit a surgeon. But I don’t want my parents to know I had sex, what should I do, is this and will subside within sometime or should I just bite the bullet and visit a surgeon