Hello I’m a 20yr old female, I havent had a first date or anything at all, 2022-23 I struggled being obese and it definitely awakened me and I started to lose weight this year, in a spam of a month I’ve lost about 20-30 pounds and everyday Im losing a pound. I’m improving my life as much as I can. I was in a online relationship which ended long ago and now I’ve really been wanting to experience dating irl. I have hinge, bumble, tinder and started using them 5 days ago. I feel I have no luck, I have made it clear I’m a plus size girl and have photos showcasing how I look but Im not even getting any likes at all :((. Do I just wait until I’m what is standard attractive? I’m super self aware now and I knew I wasn’t gonna attract models obv, but I’m starting to feel maybe I’m just not made for dating or is suitable for guys’taste. My best friends tell me over and over I can “grab a man” or I’m pretty or I’m very loving enough to get someone but now idk if they’re just saying that cause they’re my best friends ðŸ˜