3 yr relationship- bf stopped wanting to have sex
Hi, for context I am a 23 yr old F & my boyfriend is 25. We live together. I am also pregnant with his child. I have tried to talk to him MANY times about this but I get no solid answer- so I am asking here in hopes for some general advice. (This started way before I got pregnant)
Our sex life has always been on the rocks it feels like. He always says something is hurting, or has some other excuse. I get rejected every time I try and initiate the first move. When I bring this up to him- he gets pretty defensive. “When you say stuff about me not wanting to have sex with you it’s so unattractive” “since you brought that up I’m not fking you for even longer now” or if I ask if he’s attracted to me at other times I get “if I didn’t find you attractive I wouldn’t be with you”
He admits to watching porn (don’t know how much). It doesn’t seem like he’s attracted to me. We only have sex if and when HE wants to. If it were up to me, we would have sex every day, but like I said I get rejected. Has anyone been in a long term relationship & felt this way about their girlfriend? I’m so lost and confused. Is this my fault? How can I get him to want me more?