Hey! I’m 20F. If anyone has had this problem before and solved it let me know how lol. Obligatory “Im a virgin and haven’t had intercourse yet”. I’ve tried some things with people, and I can definitely get turned on but I have never felt genuine sexual pleasure. I can’t get no satisfaction 😔
For instance, grinding against a guys hard on I was feeling super horny and like ‘yeah okay I’m excited’ but then felt nothing beyond being excited. Which is just embarrassing at that point. Maybe it s a mental thing.
So I do get horny, and turned on, but every time I try to masturbate or engage in stimulation it doesn’t “work.” That is, I’ve never experienced a sensation that feels good, or like ‘oh, so that’s it’. It’s just kind of an intense sensation sometimes. It’s really kind of annoying. Because I can feel the need for release but I can’t get anywhere close to it.
I first tried masturbating when I was seventeen, and during the past three years I’ve tried different things but I can’t seem to feel anything I could define as pleasure. I’ve read a lot of things and tried a good few things but just…. Nothing. It’s really bugging me!
I’ve held off on having sex too for this reason. I want to, but not unless I’m confident I can actually feel fucking SOMETHING which seems pretty logical