For context, I am not in a relationship. I haven’t been in a few years (divorced). I also haven’t had sex in a year, great sex in almost two. I have found myself masturbating more lately, as for some reasom, during my orgasms I picture myself in a scene and it is the only time I feel connected to a person.
I am a 38 yr old mom so I am pretty busy with life, but my loneliness is starting to really have an affect on my mental state. I really miss intimacy, sex, and connection. And yes, it is very hard to find these things now and days. I feel super undesirable.
And I reeeaallllyyyy miss getting eaten out. Does therapy actually help with stuff like this? I don’t think meeting a person would just automatically “cure” me, but I am sick of daydreaming about sex all of the time.