Hi all,
I 24m have been dating my gf 22F for 6 months now .
We have been in a relationship for 3 months now..When ever we go out it’s usually dates that last for 5-7 hours.
Also note we have not introduced our friends yet but it is planned that we will.
My Gf likes EDM at first I kinda tried to in hidden words asked her to not listen because it’s not allowed in our religion. She and I both have same religion.
Also note that I am a bit more religious then her.
So I once sent her a tik tok video where a former girl who liked EDM and attended festivals talked about how it’s demonic.. I shared that with her and asked her to share her thoughts which she did.. and that’s all. Also note I don’t think EDM is demonic or anything like that
After a few dates we had a discussion on a table. She was sitting across and I held her hand. She then told me how she feels like I am tryna change her and she dosent like it. To which I said it’s ok I won’t do it anymore and hope she forgives me which she said she did..
Now I offered her to go on a trip with me which would be out of country and she replies “ I am not comfortable going on a trip with you just yet”..
So why does she feel uncomfortable???
How can I make her feel comfortable to go on a trip with me in the future????
Note: I can ask her why she feels uncomfortable but then Idk if she will respond because I get the feeling she expects me to know why she feels uncomfortable when I legit don’t know.