For context, my boyfriend and I have been together for about a year. He is so good to me, and i love him soooo much but the only thing I would change is how he initiates sexual things. He doesn’t do it in a very exciting way and I feel like I kinda pleasure him more.. so I don’t know if I’m the one enabling this behavior. I’m always the one leaning over him when we are kissing or starting to feel up on eachother and I don’t mind but I don’t like being the only one TO being do it if that makes sense – I feel masculineš. Only every now and then he will try to make me finish. I just wish he would be more dominant like getting over top of me when initiating or actually enjoying pleasuring me. Is this something I can fix or is that just the way he is?? What can I do/say to change his behavior?
Tl;dr my boyfriend isnt dominant when it comes to sex, not sure if it’s fixable or hopeless