My husband (m36) and I (f44) have been together for 8 years. We’ve always been best friends and have a great relationship. Or rather, HAD one until recently. I’ll preface by saying I made a mistake. I had a lot of banter with some dudes on the local fb group. Some of my comments were sexual in nature but were just jokes. I admit I fucked up there. I know better. I was recovering from a stroke and was limited on what I could do so I spent a decent amount of time just doom scrolling social media out of depression. Now here where it gets a little outlandish. We’ve had a very persistent hacker for the last 2 years. POS just won’t go anywhere away! I digress. The hacker is somehow spoofing texts on mind and my husband’s phone. Even though he sees the fuckery on his own phone. What was found in my messages were plans to meet up and fuck. That wasn’t me and I’d never seen these messages nor do I know these people. How do I prove I’m telling the truth? Idk what to do. I don’t lie but he’s absolutely convinced. How do I get him to see the truth? I just want my best friend back.