I F(23) have been on a few dates with a guy M(26). He’s in Georgia and I live in Florida. It’s not an insane distance but usually a handful of weeks pass between our dates.
We’ve been intimate with each other and genuinely enjoy each others company. We both clarified that we’re looking for a serious relationship but it’s not the main priority in our lives right now. A kind of whatever happens, happens mentality.
I could see myself long term with him so I don’t want to ruin my chances. He recently asked me for spicy pictures. Personally I have nothing against sending him some but I fear that I might get respected less if I pull through. As in getting reduced to being “the easy girl he gets nudes from”. I also don’t want to take the anticipation away. Why would he take time off work and fly to another state to meet me when he could just satisfy himself with my pictures?
Are my fears justified?