I went out for a drink with my girlfriend and a friend of mine last night. My friend was talking about how he hasn’t been getting many matches on dating apps so my girlfriend asked him to show us his profile and she would give him some tips on what girls might look for and how to improve his profile.
While we did that he swiped on a few people and we noticed the girlfriend of a friend of mine was on the app. There were recent photos so it’s not an old account. I asked him to screenshot the profile and send it to me since I thought my friend deserved to know. He did that and then swiped on her and he matched.
My girlfriend said we should stay out of it but I just said that if she was on tinder then I’d want someone to let me know and I can’t just hide this from my friend. I sent him the screenshots and my girlfriend said I was interfering in something that was none of my business but I just repeated I couldn’t hide the fact my friends girlfriend is cheating on him or at least trying to cheat.
She just said that I’m causing drama for no reason but I just pointed out she’d likely want to know if it was me on the apps and that it’s the right thing to do. How would you handle this?
tl;dr When out for drinks with a friend, we saw another friend of mine’s girlfriend on a dating app. I sent the screenshots of her profile to my friend but my girlfriend said I was starting drama for no reason and that I should’ve stayed out of it which I disagree with. How would you handle this?