I (31m) been seeing this woman (46f) for a couple months now, and we can’t keep our hands of each other everytime we meet.
The sex is honestly amazing, there is always such a build up with long foreplay, a lot of kissing, touching and giving head before the PIV itself, and it all feels amazing.
Most of the time, I get fully erect by just getting kissed by her and when she gives me head it’s even harder. But sometimes I don’t get an erection at all, she can do whatever she wants, nothings happening.. and I really don’t know why! It also happened two times when we were having sex (PIV), everything was going good, and then my penis just went soft..
She does turns me on, she does all the right things, she is always dripping wet, which really turns me on, but sometimes I just don’t get hard and it’s really frustrating.. after we let is rest for a while and she starts kissing and touching me again, it’s erect in no time!
Anyone had the same issue or knows what causes this? Or am I overthinking in the moment itself? I’ve been thinking it’s the 16 years age difference, but I don’t think so. She is really pretty and we just match so well!
Thank you for any advice and sorry if my English is not the best.