He has a fantasy of being in a relationship with a woman who is disappointed in him thus mean and ignores him but I’m a highly giving person and people please to extremes. He’s also highly dominating and knows he has me under his control so whenever I try to put my foot down it fails because he sees through it and knows I’m obsessed with him is there any actual way to shift this dynamic to me being something he can lust over in the way he desires I don’t know how to behave in that way because in a sense he won’t let me