I (25f) met the guy im seeing(26m) a week ago. We met on a dating app. I was only in the city for a few days but don’t know anyone there, and was sick of being alone, so I downloaded the app and met him on there. After a bit of small talk, I realised our work schedules don’t align so I was about to move on when he took a time off work to meet me.
We ended up meeting that night for drinks, I enjoyed his company so much. He really seems everything I could have asked for in someone: handsome, kind, funny, polite and charming
After out first date, we decided to go on an all-day date the very next day which turned into an overnight date and we slept together. He asked me to stay at his the next day and work from his hosue (I work remotely) but I refused. Even though part of me really did want to stay, I knew it was too much. However, we arranged to meet again that evening but this time, he stayed at my house, and we slept together again. The next day, I spent my last day and night with him at his house before going home.
Now he’s coming on a one hour flight tomorrow to visit me.
We have been making plans for pretty far foward in the future, such as vacations abroad and even potentially moving in together in his city in the next few months….which i know sounds crazy. CRAZY. And I know if my friends said that about a guy she just met, I would find it ridiculous…..but the way I feel….it feels right.
I have genuinely never felt this way about someone so quickly. He really is insanely attractive to me inside and out. And I can understand an early warning sign on DA is moving too fast too soon. I know that part of their tactic is so come across as the perfect match for the person they’re dating….. but I really feel like he is being genuine about who he is. He told me about himself before he even knew what interested me. I have met his friends, verified his job and his instagram checks-out. I know atleast a good deal of what he portrays is true from what I have seen of his life.
So…is this some amazing meeting of two people falling in love at first sight (I’m half joking, we haven’t said ‘I love you’ yet and I know you can’t love someone so early on), or is this a major burning bright red flag that I must be optically impared not to see?