23M here & dating someone for the first time. I’m experiencing a few issues that all root from within myself:
I dwell on mistakes that I may have made and feel that I cannot speak freely without worrying about her being turned off by it. “If I say XXX, will she be turned off?”, “Am I supposed to say/do this in a situation like this? What if she gets turned off?”, etc.
She doesn’t know I’m like this, and I think this itself might be a ‘turn-off’ (yes, ironic).
How does one resolve/overcome this?
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