Hey, I’m a 23-year-old guy and my girlfriend, who’s 21, have been in a relationship for 2 years now , has recently been very interested in motorbike riders and very muscular men. She also has an obsession with the character Ghost from Call of Duty. For example, she engages in conversations on platforms like SpicyChat and NSFW AI chats with the Ghost character in both sexual and non-sexual ways every day. She does the same with characters with motorbikes. Initially, she hid this from me because she knew I wouldn’t approve, but after I discovered it, she told me everything. We reached a compromise that she would try to reduce her use of these platforms. ( 1 month already and it didnt got reduced rlly )
However, I still have concerns. We’re both gamers and she enjoys playing Dead by Daylight with random people on Discord. Recently, she added two new players: one guy who has a thirst trap as his profile picture showing off his muscular body, and another who is a motorbike rider. It might be coincidental, but knowing her, I’m uneasy even though I trust she wouldn’t cheat. Nevertheless, it still bothers me.
I’ve started working out at the gym for the past two months and I’m planning to buy a motorbike next year. I want to be her top priority. I’m sorry for my awkward English and the strange way I’ve written this. I’m just struggling lately and unsure what to do. Does anyone have an advice or could tell me if something is wrong with me do i need help or smth?