Massive shift in libido
I am 37 and have never had any issues with libido or performance. I recently got out of 5 year relationship. Ultimately it was not a healthy relationship, unfortunately we matched very well physically/sexually. We engaged in physical intimacy often with no issues and enjoyed each other very much.
I noticed a slight change in my libido early last year and an eventual drop off late last year. I have had lab work done, ALL hormones and other labs are normal.
Our relationship ended as result of constant disrespect on her part. The final straw was her blaming me for giving her an STI. I got tested to prove to her I had nothing, my results were all negative, and she just said she was glad everyone was clean….
No apology, no explanation, nothing. I demanded to know where she got it from and she refused to speak of it…
So, I am wondering if this change is strictly psychological as a result of trauma in that relationship, feelings of betrayal, etc.
It has been about 3 months and I suppose I need more time to move on.
Has anyone had a similar experience?
Any advice?
Thank you in advance