My wife recently moved out and is having an identity crisis. There’s other issues that I’m responsible for like being unavailable emotionally and I’m going to work on that, started therapy, reading etc. I’m trying to figure out how to cope right now because I’m pretty sure I can’t do anything to help my wife, she wants control over her life because she never had it and wants to figure herself out. I’m just in so much pain and now I can’t go to my wife because it just guilts her which isn’t helpful. So far it’s been 3 weeks and I fear this is going to go on for a long time before she comes home or, I fear, she never does come home and the distance creates a new problem. I love my wife more than anything in this world and I’m trying to remain positive