I do not have the ability to make decisions.
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At least on anything more than a small scale. I can figure out where to eat in 5 minutes flat. If I think I need to change out an exercise to progressively load better, I’ll weigh the pros and cons and come to a decision in a few days. How to spend an evening in is never a big question for me.
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But it’s not the same when it comes to bigger picture events, or social events. Where should I suggest my friends hang out, what should we do? What do I do if I have the option to travel for work? Which of these two apartments should I pick? What personal project should I take on this summer? Do I text her back?
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It’s starting to get frustrating, I just can’t ever make up my mind. I’ve tried a few strategies – a pros and cons lists, flipping a coin, etc. Never seems to work. Has anyone else in a similar position found anything that fits them?