A guy I’ve been dating for a couple of weeks and I recently had sex for the first time. We were both very excited since it was very apparent that we both have been waiting for it patiently and also like each other very much.
The only issue is that I was surprised with a huge dick. I know it might sound silly, but it already bothered me that I wasn’t able to properly fit it in my mouth and couldn’t give him the pleasure he deserved. And then when it came to penetration, especially during doggy I was in pretty bad pain and we had to pause for a moment. In other positions, also as he tried not going as deep, it was alright. Still had to deal with some pain, but it was manageable. Yet I felt like it made it less enjoyable for him that way (not being able to enter fully). It’s now been 2 days and I’m still dealing with some pain in my abdomen from what I assume to be a bruised uterus.
Anyways, I actually am looking for some advice.
Are there any positions that might hurt less? Has anybody else ever have to deal with a similar issue? Is there any way it gets better? Is there a chance I might get used to it?