I want to be able to focus on what we’re doing, and not be constantly thinking about leading things to sex, but I feel like there’s always a primal voice in my head that is obsessed with getting there. Is this normal?
Most times, if we’re cuddling or kissing, I’ll even start to get hard, because my mind goes straight to sex. I want to be able to enjoy the other things too without having to have sex first.
Maybe this is a primal instinct that men have to ensure “survival of the species”, or maybe I’m alone on this. Please let me know if you relate and/or if you have any advice on this.