I (22M) have been with my gf (24F) for 6 months. Things have been great. She loves me and cares for me more than any other partner has. I am just having doubts about if she is really what I want. For background, I am a go getter that has tons of interests and hobbies and a good amount of friends. She on the other hand is a pretty basic person and just seems to cruise through life. She likes to read here and there and she has a dog that she’s obsessed with but that’s it. This makes it hard bc we don’t have similar interests. I feel like I’m a relationship she is supposed to feel like my best friend that I want to spend time with but it almost feels like a chore bc I know we’re just gonna sit around.

Last thing: I always see other couples that are doing cute things together and they seem to genuinely enjoy being together, their personalities match. I just want someone to match my energy. Is this the problem?

TLDR: My girlfriend and I don’t have the same interests and have different personalities. This really bothers me. Should I break up with her?

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