Hey! I’ve gone on 5-6 dates with this guy who I know has mentioned he is bad at texting but while in person he’s a great communicator. We both have a adhd and I’m leaning more anxious attachment style.
It’s been hard for me to date him (enjoy his company) because I don’t fully feel secure with him. I feel more secure when people show me affection and physical touch. Which he doesn’t but not alot.
All of this is making me confused and I can’t fully be “in it”.
Any suggestions on how to address because I’d like to communicate this and hear his pov and go from there.
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I feel he’s Trying to Give you some boundaries, Some men do that unless You Go Closer and Then he can open Up
Had the same issue with someone I’ve dated. We had different communication styles and it didn’t end up working because I always felt insecure.