What are some traits or habits that you’d tolerate from a fling/hookup, but not from a girl you’d take seriously (for a relationship)

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1. Tramp stamp.

2. Bjs and doing her best friend together ❤️

3. getting drunk on the reg

4. * short hair
   * Overweight/obese
   * No job/career

5. Very little, honestly. I’m slowly getting past the point where casual sex is worth disregarding my standards and overall comfort level. Bad habits are bad, and I generally have no patience for them.

6. Anything that doesn’t hurt me physically or isn’t a crime, I will tolerate from a hookup

7. Nothing, if I can’t take her for a serious relationship, then she’s not up to par for a fling. I’m not wasting my time.

   It I want a hookup, I’ll hit the local swinger club. All the hookups I want, none of the drama.

8. Hooking up – drugs/drink
   Dating – nope

9. Addiction to drugs or alcohol – I’m not against weed but for addicts it is very expensive. I have friends who will smoke like 1/4 of their monthly income.

   Daddy issues – they are literally the freakiest in the bedroom but relationships are a constant battle.

   Being overweight – I make an effort to stay healthy and in shape so I would want my partner too as well.

   Minimal or no income – you have to pay for everything and your outgoings suddenly double.

10. Damn. Scrolling though the comments I realized I’d pretty much put up with anything short of criminal activity with victims.

    For a FWB type thing. It’s more the combination of things that would finally make me stop. Like if she talked in public on her speaker phone I could manage but if she also didn’t use her blinker ever I would be like that’s it. Unless she was really hot. Or did anal.

11. A huge list except for skinny. Mr happy dont like skinny

12. Flirting with other men