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TLDR: Guy hangouts with girlfriend alone in a room, is this acceptable?
I have been with my girlfriend for 2 years and we are having an LDR while in college. She stays with one roommate in a dorm.
She has this guy friend (21M) that she knew for a few years before college, who is also studying in that same college. She hangs out with this guy alone from time to time, usually to grab supper after midnight.
I fully trust her actions and I don’t see that guy as a problem in this relationship until now.
Recently her roommate left overnight to visit her family, and the guy came over to my girlfriend’s room to hangout at night around 11pm. I only know this because she told me that he is coming over to hangout, which shows that she can be trustworthy.
However, I felt that it was a wrong thing to do, and when I told her my feelings about it she largely dodged the question. I could feel that she wasn’t too happy about me confronting her.
The next morning, she said that she was sorry for not asking my opinion beforehand, but she did not feel it was wrong at all. Either way she said that she will not do it again.
I am quite firm in my belief that the overall situation was wrong, especially so because they hung out together when the roommate was not in. This has blown up into an argument and now I am not quite sure if I am being insecure or not.
Any insight or advice would be greatly appreciated.