Hello strangers of the internet, I always seem to have pretty good first dates but then somehow can’t connect or mess up the chat afterwards , any advice, idk if it is either me the problem or just that the person is not interested. For instance, I just went on a date last weekend and it was pretty good, however, we have not texted since then and she has not answered a text I sent her with a funny meme and Idk, it just goes around my head not knowing, thanks for the help
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I guess we’d have to know how the dates go. It seems they lose interest after that. What things do you do? Where do you go for these dates?
Have patience, don’t double message. If they don’t reply move on.
Maybe send more than just a funny meme? Tell her you had fun and then ask her on another date. Some women will initiate after the first date and some will expect you to continue initiating.
It could also be that women are not feeling a connection to you after the first date and you think they dates are a lot better than they really. You should do some reflection on how you present yourself on a first date, be very honest and then go from there.