Hello all,
I have some soft fetishes / sexual fantasies and I occasionally experience them with various women. (Mostly as fwb) I am 31 and I have not had any long committed relationship so far. I want to change this soon. I am working on myself to create better me. I am considering to start dating soon but my fetishes / sexual fantasies hold me back a bit. To be honest, I don’t want to have committed relationship / marriage without those being part of the relationship. I have no idea how can I find women who would be okay to try those things with me.
That’s why, I am wondering how do you handle your fetishes / sexual fantasies in committed relationship / marriage? How did your partner react to your fetishes / sexual fantasies when she heard them first time? Did you spend some time to convince your partner to open up or were you lucky to find partner who were completely okay with those things?
Do you have your fetishes / sexual fantasies in pararel with your relationship / marriage? If yes, how? Do you keep It as secret or are you allowed to experience them with other women?
I know, this is not the most important thing but I don’t want to be in unhappy relationship as It would be silly thing to commit.
Thanks for your answers in advance.