I have been with my boyfriend for almost 3 years now and we are currently expecting a child. We were both students when we started dating so i knew that both of us were not that financially stable although he had a part time job. After the first year of dating, i finished my bachelors and started working. I was very ok with splitting bills. He always told me how much he was struggling to also help his family back at home. I constantly felt bad for him and sometimes i would just cover up a bill on my own. He would sometimes even spoil me and take me to trips and i would really cherish it since i thought he was making a big sacrifice. Now 3 years in, i came across a chat between him and one of his friends, and he was telling him how he has me under control and has never opened up about how much money he has. He went on to say, he never opened up because he wanted to test me to see what kind of a girl i am. This honestly mad me very upset but i haven’t confronted him about it. I felt like he doesn’t trust me enough to be clear about his finances, especially when he knew everything about mine and how i had to sacrifice because i was feeling bad for him. I don’t know if i am not being reasonable. Now with a child coming how was he expecting everything to keep on going? The whole situation has made me very bitter and angry.