hi! to start thisoff, i will mention that i’m autistic, for more context.
recently i had a few issues with 2 girls who i thought liked to go out with me, until i realized it was totally one sided.
back to the original story, i’ve known this girl for around a year, she’s one year older than me. we always talked at birthday parties of common friends but we never actually became friends until, at one birthday party, i asked her if we could hang out or talk more, to which she told me she was actually scared of talkinhg to me privately because she was afraid of making the first move, but she’d love to. this party was around 3 weeks ago. we’ve hung out 2 times since then but it’s been mostly me asking,or me initiating conversations, but when i do it wrosk and we talk for half an hour or an hour. i also asked her if we could hang out one more time, but she cancelled like 30 minutes before, which sucked. i’m, just really hung up on how she doesn’t really initiate conversations or ask me to hangout, but when we do talk she talks a lot and overall looks comfortable. i just need a second take on this so
is it one sided?