In what ways do you think differently of her, or catch yourself feeling about certain aspects of her?

7 comments

  1. One is family, one isnt. With one your guards are up, the other they arent (or mostly aren’t, depending). One you do things for her for yourself. The other you do things for her.

  2. My girlfriend and I are coming up on 1 year in a few weeks, and I realized the other day that the only thing that feels different about this relationship from any of my other ones is that I always want to be with her and I’m almost never anything but happy when I’m around her, I always got tired or annoyed or bored with anyone else, and I think it’s because for the first time I am actually in love with someone. I’ve said it to people before o met her but I actually feel it this time. Consciously I don’t think this makes me treat her any differently other than trying harder to make sure the relationship stays working, but I’d be surprised if subconsciously all of the love and happiness i now have in my heart didn’t cause me to treat her better than anyone I was just dating and not in love with

  3. It depends, for instance, my gf now I treat her like family. No stops. Her happy will make me happy. There is nothing she can’t ask or request. I will make sure she’s too priority.

    If I’m just dating someone, and have no real intention of a relationship then like “one of the guys” they will not be my top priority.

Leave a Reply
You May Also Like