Hi, I would like to know the names/specific terms for some sexual… interests? Not sure whether they could be described as kinks.
1. Placing someone’s cock into your mouth (usually while doing something else, like watching a movie or scrolling on your phone for instance). The cock must not be sucked up/down as it would be in the case of a blowjob, but rather held in the giver’s mouth. The giver may swirl their tongue around the head of the cock or apply gentle suction, as if sucking a lollipop or a pacifier, for lack of a better comparison. It’s the casualness that makes it hot as well as the feeling of having your mouth stuffed with your partner’s body part in a way that’s strange, unusual and perhaps a little bit humiliating.
2. Hidden acts of exhibitionism (ish?). I was wondering if there was a specific term for this. I’ve had this particular interest my entire life. It’s hard to describe but I’ll try to exemplify what I mean: my partner and I were at a busy public park together, when the weather suddenly turned cold. We had a blanket so we wrapped ourselves up waiting for the sunset. I felt my partner’s hands unbuttoning my summer dress, caressing my skin while slowly moving its way up to my breasts. Meanwhile we were having a normal conversation as if nothing was out of the ordinary. People were literally passing by less than 5ft away from us, completely oblivious to the fact my tits were being fondled, pinched and played with under the blanket. I found this experience (along with other similar experiences) so incredibly mentally stimulating and arousing. It’s the lack of pre-agreed consent, the play along, the fact that no one around you knows what is going on which makes this type of experience delicious to me, but I have never been able to find the term for it
3. This is a strange one as I have no interest whatsoever in children, lactation or any pregnancy related things but I really love when my (adult, male) partner sucks my nipples the way a baby would. ABF doesn’t really cut it as I don’t really care about the lactation aspect? I just find it a big turn on when my partner suckles at my nipples like that and I don’t know why :’)